What to expect:
The first few sessions will be used as an assessment. (I know that may sound clinical, but all it really means is that I’ll be getting to know you and you’ll be getting to know me). We may not make any changes or goals in the first few sessions because we’ll be discussing your history, current patterns and getting clear on what you’d like to accomplish through working together. Follow-up sessions will be geared towards setting small, accomlishable goals so you can feel supported along the path of change.
Much of the work we’ll be doing involves unlearning. Unlearning the rules, beliefs and behaviors that diet culture instills that really keep us stuck. Through unlearning, you’ll learn how to take care of yourself in ways that are accessible, flexible, enjoyable, and meaningful to you. This will mostly entail relearning how to trust and listen to the signals your body is giving you. Hunger, fullness, energy, mood, digestion, satisfaction- these are just some of the signals you’ll learn to tune into.
I don’t have all the answers! Yes, I do have experience in what I do and some tips and tricks up my sleeves to help you, but at the end of the day, I view you as the expert. You know yourself the best and you know what’s best for you. I strive to empower you to harness the knowledge and wisdom that you inherently possess.
The occasional cameo appearance of my cat, Penny. (As I only do virtual appointments from my home).
What not to expect:
We won’t be tracking what you eat. No calorie counting and no monitoring from me on what you’re eating or not eating. Sometimes a food journal may be used, but this is more so for your own observations to make any connections to how food makes your body feel.
99.9% of the time I won’t track your weight. It’s not relevant to the work we’ll be doing and I am often encouraging you to weigh yourself less or not at all because it’s most likely negatively affecting your relationship with food and your body image. In the .01 percent chance your weight is being monitored it may be for health and safety reasons to make sure your weight isn’t fluctuating at an unsafe rate. In this case your weight will most likely be monitored by your therapist or doctor.
No demonizing of foods. No foods will be off limits. Seriously. I promise to never judge or shame you for what you eat. And if you think I have judged you in some way, please know you can tell me and I will do better by you in the future.
It is a no pressure call that allows us to get to know each other better. I'll ask you a few questions to get a better feel for what you're looking for and what your goals are. I'll always provide time on the call for you to ask me any questions.
I'll always ask for your consent before providing any information regarding my services.
At the end of the call, if you're feeling like it's a good fit, we can proceed to making your first appointment and getting you set up to work together.
If you're feeling like you would like more time to think about it, that will be respected and you do not have to make a decision on the call. I may ask for your permission to reach back out to you in a couple of days to check in with you to see if you've made a decision or have any further questions.
Do I need to book a call to work with you?
No, I understand calls can sometimes be intimidating! You are welcome to send an email instead and we can chat that way. Email me at Emily@truebeingrd.com